It's only happened three times, but each time trying to justify it to others/myself just made me confused and more hurt. Perhaps when so many other people say it's time to just accept they didn't consider you as much as you consider them, that they're seeing something you're blind to because you didn't want to think they could really just throw you away for something else, or for nothing at all. Maybe there's truth in things you don't want to accept. But if it's a risk they were willing to take, then it's not something you have to hold onto regardless of how much it hurts.
Show yourself some grace. It's been months, and if it's still not okay, then it's not okay. And that's okay.
"Dating a best friend's ex, with or without their consent, is the best way to end a friendship."
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