1) Decide some defining feature of yourself. You can be whatever you want, as long as it allows others to place you somehow. Pick a sport, a hobby, a defining characteristic.
2) Make sure people can identify this characteristic.
3) Join some clubs. Hang out with people of similar interests.
4) Branch out. Find some more friends.
5) Adapt a bit so your personality matches theirs better. But make sure you don't lose yourself; keep that core trait close to you.
6) Develop your "new" personality a bit more.
7) Find some more hobbies to relate to more people.
8) Make sure to keep in touch with all of the friends you've made!
9) Repeat Steps 2-8 as many times as necessary to be comfortable.
10) Be that social butterfly! You want to be someone who can be friends with virtually anyone.
11) If you start feeling lonely, go back to Step 9.
12) Make sure you haven't lost that core trait in Step 1.
13) If you have, make sure you find a different defining characteristic, and make that known.
14) Above all else, don't be replaceable.
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On that note, my synthesis held up in class today!
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